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One destination. Multiple experiences. Everything inside Heauxville™ is built for WLW women 30+ who are done settling and ready to build something real.
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Intentional dating for WLW women 30+. Browse real profiles, connect meaningfully, and build something that lasts. One person at a time.
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Tell her who you are, what you want, and what you will not accept. No games. Just truth.
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Not another swiping app
Every other app is built for volume. HerMatch™ is built for depth. One person at a time means one real chance at a time.
Built for us. Only us.
WLW and AFAB women 30+ only. No straights. No men. No explaining yourself. Just women who understand the assignment.
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HerMatch™ was built by Damn Gina — a WLW dating and relationship coach who has helped hundreds of women date with intention.
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Layer 3 — Who You Are
How would the people who love you most describe you?
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What part of yourself are you still learning to love? Unlocks after mutual match
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A virtual grief support group for Black women hosted by Damn Gina Love in partnership with a Certified Grief Coach.
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A Community by Damn Gina Love
Welcome to Heauxville™
A community created by Damn Gina for women who love women.
Find friendship.
Find connection.
Find community.
Maybe even find love.
Heauxville™ is where women who love women come to build meaningful relationships, connect with like-minded women, grow through life’s challenges, and create the kind of life they actually want.
Whether you’re looking for friendship, dating, support, events, or personal growth — there’s a place for you here.
The Founder
Meet Damn Gina
Gina Graham
Hey Heaux,
I’m Gina.
For years I’ve been creating spaces where women who love women could have honest conversations about dating, relationships, healing, boundaries, and personal growth.
As this community continued to grow, I realized we needed more than another dating app.
We needed a place where women could feel seen.
A place where friendship mattered.
A place where healing mattered.
A place where real connection mattered.
So I built Heauxville™.
Welcome home.
What’s Inside
Inside Heauxville™
Community
Connect with women who get it.
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●Join conversations
●Follow members
●Build friendships
●Create genuine connections
Dating • HerMatch™
Intentional dating for women who are ready for something real.
●Verified profiles
●Real conversations
●Meaningful connections
●Community-first approach
●No swipe culture
Wellness
Because healing is part of the work.
●Grief support groups
●Clarity coaching
●Emotional wellness resources
●Community support
Events
Come experience Heauxville™ in real life.
●Virtual events
●Community gatherings
●Retreats
●Travel experiences
●Member experiences
The Journey
We’re Just Getting Started
Heauxville™ is continuing to grow.
More events.
More resources.
More opportunities to connect.
More ways to build the life, friendships,
and relationships you deserve.
And we’re bringing you along for the journey.
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Frequently Asked Questions
Verification & Access
Create a free account, complete live selfie verification, submit your TikTok username, confirm your YouTube follow, and wait for admin approval. Approval typically takes 1–3 business days.
Yes. House of Heaux + HerMatch™ is completely free. Verification is required to keep the community safe and intentional.
These steps help confirm you are a real member of the Damn Gina Love community. We manually review each application to keep the space safe.
Approval typically takes 1–3 business days. Check your spam and promotions folder for updates. If you have not heard back after 5 days, contact us.
HerMatch™
HerMatch™ is a private dating experience built exclusively for WLW and AFAB women 30+. Unlike mainstream apps that are built for volume and swiping, HerMatch™ shows you one person at a time so you give each woman your full attention. It was built by a WLW relationship coach — not a tech company trying to keep you addicted to the app. The goal is intentional connection, not endless scrolling.
Only verified members who have turned on their own HerMatch™ and completed their dating profile can browse other profiles. Your profile is never visible to the public.
Absolutely not. HerMatch™ is completely optional. You can be a community member and never turn on your dating profile. It is there when you are ready — and you can turn it off at any time.
You browse one profile at a time and choose to Pass or Connect. When two members both choose Connect, it is a mutual match. Direct messaging is available to all approved members. Browse profiles, connect, and start the conversation.
Yes. You can block any member from their profile card. Once blocked, they will no longer appear in your HerMatch™ browse and you will not appear in theirs. If you need to report someone for inappropriate behavior, contact hello@damnginalove.com.
Privacy & Safety
Your community profile is visible to other logged-in members. Your dating profile is only visible to members who have activated their own HerMatch™. Free members have very limited visibility into other profiles. We take privacy seriously — this is a closed, members-only space.
Your data is stored securely. We never share or sell your personal information. Your profile is only visible to other authenticated members.
You can block any member directly from their profile. For serious concerns — harassment, threatening behavior, or anything that violates the spirit of this community — email hello@damnginalove.com. House of Heaux LLC reserves the right to remove any member at any time for violating community standards.
Community
This platform is built for WLW (women who love women) and AFAB individuals who are 30 and older. That includes lesbians, bisexual women, queer women, pansexual women, trans men, and non-binary AFAB people. If you love women and you are 30+, you belong here.
No. This is a private, members-only space. What you share here is your choice. You do not have to be publicly out. Many members are navigating their journey privately and that is completely respected here. However, we do want to be transparent — most women in this community are openly dating women and looking for partners who are as well. That is something to keep in mind when it comes to HerMatch™.
Because we noticed a gap. Most queer events, apps, and spaces — especially for women of color — cater to the 20-29 crowd. As women age, their voices get quieter in these spaces. At 45, Damn Gina felt that silence herself. This platform exists to give voice, community, and connection to WLW women who are grown, established, and done settling for almost. You deserve a space built for where you actually are — not where you were at 23.
Currently yes. Damn Gina Love is US-based and the community is primarily US members. We may expand in the future but for now this is a US-only platform.
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Once approved, the Flame badge appears on your profile automatically. No further action needed.
If camera does not open, enable camera permissions in your browser settings and try again.
The Flame is our verified member badge. It means your profile has been reviewed and confirmed by our team. It is a symbol of presence and intention — you showed up, you are real, and you are here on purpose. Verified profiles build more trust in the community and in HerMatch™.
Check your browser settings and make sure camera access is allowed for this site. On iPhone, go to Settings → Safari → Camera and set it to Allow. On Android, go to Chrome Settings → Site Settings → Camera. After updating permissions, come back and try again. Verification requires live camera only — no photo uploads.
All verifications are reviewed within 24 hours. You will not receive a separate notification — just refresh your profile and your Flame badge will be there if approved. If your submission is not approved, you will be able to submit again.
About
Damn Gina is the brand name of Gina Graham — a WLW dating and relationship coach, author, and content creator who has spent years helping queer women date with intention. She is the founder of House of Heaux LLC, creator of the Slow Burn method, host of the Heaux to Heal podcast, and producer of Les Align Weekend. Everything on this platform comes from her lived experience and her coaching work with hundreds of women.
House of Heaux LLC is the parent company that owns and operates damnginalove.com, HerMatch™, Les Align Weekend, and all related digital products and experiences created under the Damn Gina brand.
Most WLW content online is either entertainment or hook-up culture. This platform is built around intentionality — intentional dating, intentional growth, intentional community. There is coaching content, real conversation, and a dating experience designed with depth in mind. It is not a place to pass time. It is a place to build something.
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Last Updated: March 2026
All services are owned and operated by House of Heaux LLC. This includes damnginalove.com, HerMatch™, and all related digital products and experiences.
Age Requirement
By creating an account or using any service under House of Heaux LLC, you confirm that you are 30 years of age or older. We do not knowingly collect information from individuals under 30. Accounts found to be in violation may be removed without refund.
Who This Platform Is For
damnginalove.com and HerMatch™ are designed exclusively for WLW (women who love women) and AFAB (assigned female at birth) individuals, including trans men and non-binary AFAB people. By joining, you confirm you identify within this community.
No Liability for Member Interactions
House of Heaux LLC and Damn Gina are a platform and community space — not a matchmaking guarantee service. We facilitate connections but are not responsible for the conduct, actions, or decisions of any member, whether online or in person. Any meetings, relationships, or interactions that occur as a result of connections made on this platform are entirely at your own risk.
No Guarantee of Results
Membership does not guarantee matches, connections, relationships, or any specific outcome. HerMatch™ is a tool — what you do with it is up to you.
Accurate Representation
By joining HerMatch™, you agree that your profile photos and information are accurate, recent, and honestly represent you. Profiles that are found to be misleading may be removed at the sole discretion of House of Heaux LLC.
Right to Remove Members
House of Heaux LLC reserves the right to suspend or remove any member account at any time, for any reason, including but not limited to: violation of community standards, misrepresentation, harassment, or behavior that conflicts with the values of this community. Removal does not guarantee a refund.
Access & Membership
House of Heaux + HerMatch™ is currently free with verified account. Access is granted after manual admin approval and may be revoked at any time for violation of community standards.
Privacy
We collect only the information necessary to provide our services: your email and profile details. We do not sell your data. Your dating profile is only visible to other authenticated members with active HerMatch™ profiles.
This community is exclusively for WLW and AFAB women 30+ who are here with intention. If you do not identify within this community, this is not your space.
Respect Is Not Optional
Treat every woman in this space the way you want to be treated. No disrespect, no condescension, no passive aggression. Disagreement is allowed. Disrespect is not.
No Hate. Full Stop.
Racism, homophobia, transphobia, fatphobia, ableism, colorism, or any other form of discrimination will result in immediate removal. No warnings.
No Spam or Solicitation
Do not use this community to sell products, promote services, or solicit business without explicit permission from Damn Gina. Unsolicited DMs for business purposes will get you removed.
Keep It Honest
Be who you say you are. Use accurate photos and honest information. Catfishing or misrepresentation of any kind will result in permanent removal.
Privacy Matters
What is shared in this community stays here. Do not screenshot, share, or repost anyone's content or personal information outside this platform without their consent.
No Explicit Content
This is not a hookup platform. Keep content tasteful and appropriate. Explicit sexual content, nudity, or graphic material is not permitted and will be removed immediately.
Protect the Energy
This community was built around intentional dating and growth — not drama, gossip, or negativity. If your presence consistently brings chaos, your membership will be reviewed.
Damn Gina Has the Final Word
As the founder and Host, Damn Gina reserves the right to remove any member, post, or content at any time for any reason that conflicts with the values of this community. Removal does not guarantee a refund.
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If something or someone makes you uncomfortable, email hello@damnginalove.com. We take reports seriously.
