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WLW Dating & Relationship Coach
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A private space for WLW to date with intention, build real boundaries, and create emotionally safe relationships.

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HerMatch™

Intentional dating for WLW women 30+. Browse real profiles, connect meaningfully, and build something that lasts. One person at a time.

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HerMatch™ — $9/mo  ·  3 messages per match
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HerMatch™ Plus

Enhanced HerMatch™ access with unlimited messaging and deeper visibility.

Unlimited DMs with every match
Full dating profile access after match
Dating only — no community access
See who connected on you
HerMatch™ Plus — $15/mo
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HerMatch™
Dating only · Browse · Match · 3 DMs per match
$9/mo
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HerMatch™ Plus
Dating only · Unlimited DMs · Deeper visibility
$15/mo
Slow Burn
Community + HerMatch™ access (limited messaging)
$12/mo
Alignment
Full community + HerMatch™ with unlimited messaging and coaching
$25/mo
WLW · AFAB · 30+
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A private dating experience built exclusively for WLW and AFAB women 30+ who are done settling for almost.
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Create your dating profile
Tell her who you are, what you want, and what you will not accept. No games. Just truth.
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One person at a time
No infinite scrolling. No overwhelm. We show you one full profile. You give her your full attention. Pass or Connect.
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When you both Connect
It is a match. HerMatch™ Plus and Alignment members can slide into each other's DMs without limits. Start something real.
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Lesbian · She/Her · 34 yrs · Atlanta, GA
OPEN TO DATING — SEEING WHERE IT GOES
"I know my worth. I am not in a rush. I am just done settling."
Acts of Service Secure Attachment No Kids
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Not another swiping app
Every other app is built for volume. HerMatch™ is built for depth. One person at a time means one real chance at a time.
Built for us. Only us.
WLW and AFAB women 30+ only. No straights. No men. No explaining yourself. Just women who understand the assignment.
Curated by a relationship coach
HerMatch™ was built by Damn Gina — a WLW dating and relationship coach who has helped hundreds of women date with intention.
She is out there.
Are you ready to meet her?
HerMatch™
$9/mo
Dating only. Build your profile, browse, connect, and start the conversation.
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Full dating profile
Pass or Connect with members
3 DMs per match to get started
No community access
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Slow Burn
$12/mo
Dating plus community. Everything in HerMatch™, plus the full Damn Gina experience.
HerMatch™ dating included
Full community access
All videos, podcast, and live streams
3 DMs per mutual match
Upgrade to Alignment for unlimited DMs + coaching
Alignment
$25/mo
The full experience. Community, coaching, HerMatch™, and unlimited DMs with your matches.
Everything in Slow Burn
See who already connected on you
Unlimited DMs with your matches
Full community access
Monthly group coaching call
She is waiting.
Are you ready?
WLW · AFAB · 30+ · Intentional
Content Library
Videos

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Heaux to Heal

Real talk on healing, dating, and loving yourself first. A podcast by Damn Gina — for WLW women who are done performing and ready to feel whole.

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Cancel anytime. Your payment goes directly to Gina.

Tier Two
Slow Burn
$12 / month
For the woman doing the work.
Full content library, community posting, and browse HerMatch™.

  • Everything in Free
  • Full video library
  • Community — post and comment
  • All live streams and replays
  • Full podcast episodes
  • Monthly challenge
  • Browse HerMatch™ profiles
  • Follow & connect with members
  • 10% off all products
Dating Only
HerMatch™
$9 / month
For the woman ready to meet her.
Dating access only. Browse profiles, connect, and start the conversation with 3 DMs per match.

  • Full HerMatch™ dating profile
  • Browse and connect with members
  • 3 DMs per mutual match
  • Upgrade anytime
  • No community access
  • No unlimited DMs
Dating · Unlimited DMs
HerMatch™ Plus
$15 / month
For the woman who is ready to go all in.
Everything in HerMatch™ plus unlimited DMs — no cap, no waiting.

  • Full HerMatch™ dating profile
  • Browse and connect with members
  • Unlimited DMs with your matches
  • See who connected on you
  • No community access
FAQ
Can I cancel anytime?
Yes. Cancel directly from your account with no runaround.
Is this space for WLW women?
Yes. Built for lesbian, bisexual, pansexual, and queer women.
What is the difference between Slow Burn and Alignment?
Slow Burn gets you the full library, live streams, full podcast, and community posting. Alignment adds monthly group coaching, a monthly digital product, Ask Gina, and 15% off Clarity Call. Alignment is the full experience.
How does payment work?
All payments processed securely via Stripe. Your payment goes directly to Gina.
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The Damn Gina Show

Real talk on dating, relationships, and finding your equal. No scripts. No filters.

  • Open Q&A — ask anything
  • Alignment members — submit questions in advance
  • Slow Burn & Alignment — full replay access
Upcoming Sessions
Thursday, March 27
Letting Go Without Closure
All Members
Thursday, April 3
Dating After You Have Done the Work
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Saturday, April 5
Alignment Hot Seat
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Frequently Asked Questions
Membership & Billing
Slow Burn ($12/mo) unlocks the full video library, community posting, podcast, live streams, and HerMatch™ dating with 3 DMs per match. Alignment ($25/mo) is the full experience — everything in Slow Burn plus unlimited DMs with your matches and monthly group coaching calls. Both community plans include HerMatch™ access. HerMatch™ standalone ($9/mo) gives you dating only, no community. HerMatch™ Plus ($15/mo) gives you dating with unlimited DMs, no community.
Yes. You can upgrade at any time from inside the app under Manage Subscription. When you upgrade, you are only charged the prorated difference for the remaining days in your billing cycle — your access upgrades immediately. To downgrade or cancel, go to Manage Subscription and select your billing options.
Go to your profile, tap the dropdown menu, and select Manage Subscription. From there you can cancel your plan. Your access continues until the end of your current billing period. You will not be charged again after cancellation.
Yes. All memberships renew automatically on your billing date each month until you cancel. You will receive a receipt from Stripe each time you are charged.
All digital products — including journals, ebooks, and guides — are non-refundable once purchased. Membership refunds are reviewed on a case-by-case basis. If you have a billing concern, reach out to hello@damnginalove.com and we will do our best to make it right.
HerMatch™
HerMatch™ is a private dating experience built exclusively for WLW and AFAB women 30+. Unlike mainstream apps that are built for volume and swiping, HerMatch™ shows you one person at a time so you give each woman your full attention. It was built by a WLW relationship coach — not a tech company trying to keep you addicted to the app. The goal is intentional connection, not endless scrolling.
Only authenticated members who have turned on their own HerMatch™ and completed their dating profile can browse other profiles. Free members cannot see HerMatch™ profiles at all. Your profile is never visible to the public or to anyone who has not paid for membership.
Absolutely not. HerMatch™ is completely optional. You can be a Slow Burn or Alignment member and never turn on your dating profile. It is there when you are ready — and you can turn it off at any time without canceling your membership.
You browse one profile at a time and choose to Pass or Connect. When two members both choose Connect, it is a mutual match. Unlimited direct messaging is available to HerMatch™ Plus ($15/mo) and Alignment ($25/mo) members — both people must have one of those plans for unlimited DMs to unlock. HerMatch™ ($9/mo) and Slow Burn ($12/mo) members get 3 DMs per match to get started.
Yes. You can block any member from their profile card. Once blocked, they will no longer appear in your HerMatch™ browse and you will not appear in theirs. If you need to report someone for inappropriate behavior, contact hello@damnginalove.com.
Privacy & Safety
Your community profile is visible to other logged-in members. Your dating profile is only visible to members who have activated their own HerMatch™. Free members have very limited visibility into other profiles. We take privacy seriously — this is a closed, members-only space.
Yes. All payments are processed by Stripe, one of the most trusted payment processors in the world. We never store your card number or payment details on our servers. Your financial information goes directly to Stripe and never touches our platform.
You can block any member directly from their profile. For serious concerns — harassment, threatening behavior, or anything that violates the spirit of this community — email hello@damnginalove.com. House of Heaux LLC reserves the right to remove any member at any time for violating community standards.
Community
This platform is built for WLW (women who love women) and AFAB individuals who are 30 and older. That includes lesbians, bisexual women, queer women, pansexual women, trans men, and non-binary AFAB people. If you love women and you are 30+, you belong here.
No. This is a private, members-only space. What you share here is your choice. You do not have to be publicly out. Many members are navigating their journey privately and that is completely respected here. However, we do want to be transparent — most women in this community are openly dating women and looking for partners who are as well. That is something to keep in mind when it comes to HerMatch™.
Because we noticed a gap. Most queer events, apps, and spaces — especially for women of color — cater to the 20-29 crowd. As women age, their voices get quieter in these spaces. At 45, Damn Gina felt that silence herself. This platform exists to give voice, community, and connection to WLW women who are grown, established, and done settling for almost. You deserve a space built for where you actually are — not where you were at 23.
Currently yes. Damn Gina Love is US-based and the community is primarily US members. We may expand in the future but for now this is a US-only platform.
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All verifications are reviewed within 24 hours. You will not receive a separate notification — just refresh your profile and your Flame badge will be there if approved. If your submission is not approved, you will be able to submit again.
About
Damn Gina is the brand name of Gina Graham — a WLW dating and relationship coach, author, and content creator who has spent years helping queer women date with intention. She is the founder of House of Heaux LLC, creator of the Slow Burn method, host of the Heaux to Heal podcast, and producer of Les Align Weekend. Everything on this platform comes from her lived experience and her coaching work with hundreds of women.
House of Heaux LLC is the parent company that owns and operates damnginalove.com, HerMatch™, Les Align Weekend, and all related digital products and experiences created under the Damn Gina brand.
Most WLW content online is either entertainment or hook-up culture. This platform is built around intentionality — intentional dating, intentional growth, intentional community. There is coaching content, real conversation, and a dating experience designed with depth in mind. It is not a place to pass time. It is a place to build something.
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Terms & Disclaimer
Last Updated: March 2026
All services are owned and operated by House of Heaux LLC. This includes damnginalove.com, HerMatch™, and all related digital products and experiences.
Age Requirement

By creating an account or using any service under House of Heaux LLC, you confirm that you are 30 years of age or older. We do not knowingly collect information from individuals under 30. Accounts found to be in violation may be removed without refund.

Who This Platform Is For

damnginalove.com and HerMatch™ are designed exclusively for WLW (women who love women) and AFAB (assigned female at birth) individuals, including trans men and non-binary AFAB people. By joining, you confirm you identify within this community.

No Liability for Member Interactions

House of Heaux LLC and Damn Gina are a platform and community space — not a matchmaking guarantee service. We facilitate connections but are not responsible for the conduct, actions, or decisions of any member, whether online or in person. Any meetings, relationships, or interactions that occur as a result of connections made on this platform are entirely at your own risk.

No Guarantee of Results

Membership does not guarantee matches, connections, relationships, or any specific outcome. HerMatch™ is a tool — what you do with it is up to you.

Accurate Representation

By joining HerMatch™, you agree that your profile photos and information are accurate, recent, and honestly represent you. Profiles that are found to be misleading may be removed at the sole discretion of House of Heaux LLC.

Right to Remove Members

House of Heaux LLC reserves the right to suspend or remove any member account at any time, for any reason, including but not limited to: violation of community standards, misrepresentation, harassment, or behavior that conflicts with the values of this community. Removal does not guarantee a refund.

Payments & Refunds

All membership fees are billed through Stripe. Subscriptions renew automatically until cancelled. Refunds are issued at the discretion of House of Heaux LLC. Cancellation stops future billing but does not refund the current billing period.

Privacy

We collect only the information necessary to provide our services: your email, profile details, and payment information (processed securely by Stripe — we never store card numbers). We do not sell your data. Your dating profile is only visible to other authenticated members with active HerMatch™ profiles.

Contact

Questions about these terms or your account: hello@damnginalove.com

© 2026 House of Heaux LLC. All rights reserved.
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The Standard
Community Guidelines
This is a space built on intention. Protect it.
Effective March 2026 · House of Heaux LLC
Who This Space Is For

This community is exclusively for WLW and AFAB women 30+ who are here with intention. If you do not identify within this community, this is not your space.

Respect Is Not Optional

Treat every woman in this space the way you want to be treated. No disrespect, no condescension, no passive aggression. Disagreement is allowed. Disrespect is not.

No Hate. Full Stop.

Racism, homophobia, transphobia, fatphobia, ableism, colorism, or any other form of discrimination will result in immediate removal. No warnings.

No Spam or Solicitation

Do not use this community to sell products, promote services, or solicit business without explicit permission from Damn Gina. Unsolicited DMs for business purposes will get you removed.

Keep It Honest

Be who you say you are. Use accurate photos and honest information. Catfishing or misrepresentation of any kind will result in permanent removal.

Privacy Matters

What is shared in this community stays here. Do not screenshot, share, or repost anyone's content or personal information outside this platform without their consent.

No Explicit Content

This is not a hookup platform. Keep content tasteful and appropriate. Explicit sexual content, nudity, or graphic material is not permitted and will be removed immediately.

Protect the Energy

This community was built around intentional dating and growth — not drama, gossip, or negativity. If your presence consistently brings chaos, your membership will be reviewed.

Damn Gina Has the Final Word

As the founder and Host, Damn Gina reserves the right to remove any member, post, or content at any time for any reason that conflicts with the values of this community. Removal does not guarantee a refund.

Report Issues

If something or someone makes you uncomfortable, email hello@damnginalove.com. We take reports seriously.

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